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The Right Time To Have Sex In a New Relationship
" Have sex because you want to, not because you feel pressured or think the other person will disappear if you don't. "
Apparently, these are the perennial questions about sex especially for women: "If we have sex, will he call," and for men, "when will she be ready." When a little suspicious of such glib formulations, just nod to the spirit of the cliches. Sex is messy and complex, and never more so than when it is with a new person. It is important, very important, to have sex at just the right time in a relationship.



Do it for you
Have sex because you want to, not because you feel pressured or think the other person will disappear if you don't. A person like that is not looking for a serious relationship in the first place and you are just another receptacle for him/her. Do it when it feels right and do it for you.

Better late and more
Whether you are a man or a woman, it is always better to get physical later, rather than sooner in a relationship. Why? Because you will get to know the other person better and be in a better position to decide if you really do want to sleep with him or her. Margaret Paul, Do I Have To Give Up Me to Be Loved By You? says, "[People try] to get the intimate connection through sex, but great sex is an outgrowth of intimacy, not a cause of it. ... Physical attraction is never enough to see people through the inevitable conflicts that come up in primary relationships."

Focus on the relationship
As important and fun as sex is, if it is a relationship you want, then pay attention to nurturing that. Get to know the other person better and let them know things about you. If you ask yourself, "Do I trust this person?" you should be able to say, "Yes" with no doubts. This is the way to feel more comfortable around him or her, and that is a prerequisite for good sex. The physical attraction will only become stronger and more deeply grounded.

Is what you have enough?
Look at how much physical closeness you already have. Do you hold hands? Do you have trouble keeping your hands off each other? Is there a spark between you? When you kiss, do you want more? What does the person's kissing style suggest to you about their bedroom style? What do you have besides chemistry? In the answers to these questions, you will find if it is the right time, or even if it is actually what you want.

Get the time right, literally
Whether it is spontaneous or planned, make sure your first time together is relaxed and private. You don't have to have scented candles and satin sheets, but the backseat of the car in a parking lot or alleyway might not be the best place. Always be responsible; use a condom.

Be prepared for after
If you do have sex, there will be an after - whether the morning after or the munchies after. Treat what happened with respect, but not absurd devotion or gratitude. Conversation will ease any tension that either of you may feel. You can even make a few jokes, just nothing that your partner might construe as meanness. Just so you know, the first time may be lousy or amazing, but it isn't always an indicator of things to come. Sometimes people stop trying to impress their partner and become selfish and other times, greater understanding and emotional closeness makes for quantum leaps in the quality of sex.

In this time and age of instant gratification, sex has become an important parameter to judge relationships, but make sure this does not pressure you into doing anything that makes you uncomfortable.

 
 
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Posted by: Grace   (01/16/08)

excellent article...
Posted by: Embracing Pose   (04/19/08)

This is just about the only article I've come across that sends the words viewers need to hear. I learned after my first sexual experience that it pays to get to know someone before sex. Because if everything about that person sucks, you wish you'd waited
Posted by: Adebimpe   (05/19/08)

Frienship, love is not all about sex. if he leaves you because you refuse his sexual desires, he will leave you even if you give him what he wanted. ladies should learn how to use their head. Sex should be the last thing that should happen between you and
Posted by: Kunene sthembiso   (07/17/08)

Its a great article i have learnt so much from it.I personally believe that one should be sure before having sex.Don't use sex to keep your boyfriend
Posted by: Carla   (09/16/08)

Well in love and sex everything is so relative. I waited almost 6 months before having sex with my boyfriend and once we had it he did not care about the relationship anymore. With my next boyfriend I had sex after 1 week only and he loved me forever.
Posted by: gracey   (10/11/08)

i slept with my boyfriend three weeks into the relationship. i had no regrets. it doesnt matter the time you decide to have sex with your partner as long as both of you truly connect and are ready for whatever consequences there may be
Posted by: Juliana   (02/10/09)

Sorry. Never read a book through merely because you have begun it. I am from Mongolia and learning to speak English, tell me right I wrote the following sentence: "You should also know that you need to work hard to keep the weight off in the future."
Posted by: Mumun   (04/01/09)

I get slept with my boy over 3 month.he get my virgin.and after that,he's not thinking for rellationship again..he just think bout sex.
Posted by: yoza   (04/16/09)

I took 4 months or so with my first boy friend and there after we did it, I got pregnant first time and there was no relationship but only parenting for me. I then decided to quit and was single for two yrs, met another guy, we are still waiting, its thes
Posted by: yoza   (04/16/09)

its been 3 and a half years now we never did it, but we talk everyday and we'r mad about each other I dont know what will ever happen once we get started
Posted by: ronaldo   (05/07/09)

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Posted by: joanna   (12/15/09)

Honestly just wait! Why put yourself through all the worryn about std's, pregnancy and if he's gonna stay with me. Their is so much more to life as in your future and making yourself happy before trying to make someone else happ
Posted by: Miranda Havener   (01/10/10)

I know for a fact that, if he truly loves you, he will wait! I have a boyfriend who asked twice and I finnaly said, "If that's what this is gonna be about then it's over!" and he said "No! It's not, I will wait as long as you want, just take your time."
Posted by: yolly   (04/03/10)

First date sex will not get a relationship to a higher level. Most will wither before it begins, because thrill of sex has clouded the other aspect like communication and emotional connection which should be established during the dating or courtship.
Posted by: twin   (04/08/10)

I don't mind waitin,she know she have me hook anyway.I think you should wait a fews mons.
Posted by: Brooke   (04/29/10)

you should wait and get to know the person before you have sex with them. Don't just have sex on impulse or spontaneously. If your married, than when and why you have sex is your choice. But that's just my opinion.
Posted by: Rachael   (05/01/10)

I had sex wit my boyfriend few months after we started n since then i can't do witout it. Even him,he says he can't also do witout it.
Posted by: Tom   (05/12/10)

thank you brilliant advice :)
Posted by: Mandy   (05/20/10)

I haven't had sex with my boyfriend and I feel pressured because he has a 'History' but thank you for the great advice,If he loves me he will wait and sex does not make a relationship
Posted by: Galaxy   (05/24/10)

Am a girl of 18 I ve not ve sex wit my guy is now 5yrs now bt he ask 4 dat bt i told him 2 wait cus i knw he wil marry.so sex is not al abt relationshipg
Posted by: alyssa   (05/27/10)

that helped alot good advice! i thought i was cursed cuz guys kept breaking up with me 2 weeks after sex. Now i realize it's not a curse they are jerks and the timing probably wasn't right.
Posted by: cutie22   (06/13/10)

whether u sex a guy as u meet are a year later to me it dont make a difference the 1st i met the guy im now with we had sex and its over 3years now and nothing hasnt change so its just the type of person he are is that really matters.
Posted by: dark&lovely   (06/13/10)

On the first date i sex with my boyfriend and i didnt have any regrets even thou we breakup 2yrs later but i know it wasnt the early sex that contribute to it!bloggers that need a friend hbk 18765323242
Posted by: perrich   (06/21/10)

i'll never love u bcoz of sex.not how much u give me if i dont luv u thats it.sex is an act and making love something else.
Posted by: saucy   (06/26/10)

i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time after i yr. it is also a long distance relationship so he is in my country an i did enjoy it
Posted by: pinky   (06/28/10)

i got new boyffriend so m afrait to sllee with him because i think after sex he will disappear. what can i do because i love him.
Posted by: Isabel   (07/01/10)

I had sex with my new boyfriend a week after dating and he is gr8,i dnt wanna lose him!i hav ths feeling that what he realy wants is sex coz he likes talkin about it!
Posted by: frank   (07/04/10)

i think sex is not the ultimate,whatever will happen,will surely happen,what the opposite sex should think is these,does these person love me,sex should be the last thing,it is what both of u will do till dead comes,think before u leap,
Posted by: frank   (07/04/10)

i think sex is not the ultimate,whatever will happen,will surely happen,what the opposite sex should think is these,does these person love me,sex should be the last thing,it is what both of u will do till dead comes,think before u leap,
Posted by: Nicole   (08/08/10)

Wel 4 me i tink its d knd of prsn u ar havin a relationshp wit dat matters,evn if u have sex wit him 4 d ist tym,if he truly loves you lyk he said he wil alwys b wit you no matter what.
Posted by: Nicole   (08/08/10)

Wel 4 me i tink its d knd of prsn u ar havin a relationshp wit dat matters,evn if u have sex wit him 4 d ist tym,if he truly loves you lyk he said he wil alwys b wit you no matter what.
Posted by: vem   (08/09/10)

am very confuse about sex sometime i watch porn just to easy the tension but my friends i must have sex in order to be man and my girlfriend is behaving strangely should i have sex with her in order to ease the the tension and save my relationship
Posted by: Tammy   (08/13/10)

This article was great. Straight to the point and precise. Communication and closeness should be established before sex.
Posted by: trish   (08/19/10)

nice advice!
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Posted by: great2010   (08/30/10)

I have been seeing this man for over 5 month. He has not even tried to kiss me or hold my hand and I so much want to feel some affection from him......I don't understand. We spend every free moment together. How slow can I take this.
Posted by: insideout   (09/05/10)

It is always best to just wait
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Posted by: shygirl23   (09/15/10)

I've dated this new guy twice. Spent some time alone in his room, but I didn't want to have sex yet coz I tell him it's too soon & I barely know him. I feel he's being pushy & he's just another jerk. Too soon to tell though. Any advice?
Posted by: Stephen   (09/21/10)

I was friends with her for 3months then we had sex but she had sex with some a week before and I am still grossed out
Posted by: Stephen   (09/21/10)

I was friends with her for 3months then we had sex but she had sex with some a week before and I am still grossed out
Posted by: Lukman   (10/04/10)

Luv is not sex,sex is an eternal sturf,i don't see sex as first priority in relatnshp and at d same time sex is just fun,involving in sex with ur new partner doesn't a big deal,wat matas most is u guyz commitment.Peace...
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Luv is not sex,sex is an eternal sturf,i don't see sex as first priority in relatnshp and at d same time sex is just fun,involving in sex with ur new partner doesn't a big deal,wat matas most is u guyz commitment.Peace...
Posted by: Lukman   (10/04/10)

Luv is not sex,sex is an eternal sturf,i don't see sex as first priority in relatnshp and at d same time sex is just fun,involving in sex with ur new partner doesn't a big deal,wat matas most is u guyz commitment.Peace...
Posted by: Lukman   (10/04/10)

Luv is not sex,sex is an eternal sturf,i don't see sex as first priority in relatnshp and at d same time sex is just fun,involving in sex with ur new partner doesn't a big deal,wat matas most is u guyz commitment.Peace...
Posted by: ester   (10/10/10)

i want to hve sex with the man that really loves me..i dont care if he is handsome or not,i know a guy,he told me that he loves me to death,we never meet before,only share photos,i love him so much,i will do everything to keep my relationship with him.
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Posted by: Angel   (10/14/10)

I've been inlv wt dic guy for 2yrs nd we nvr had sex.bt we are lukng 4ward 2 it.thnx 4 da advise!
Posted by: Angel   (10/14/10)

I've been inlv wt dic guy for 2yrs nd we nvr had sex.bt we are lukng 4ward 2 it.thnx 4 da advise!
Posted by: jossy   (10/24/10)

i am a medical student who believes in true love 4life i have dated 4 girl but they dont know how to sex you see this issue is an individual thing i am looking 4 a girl that can show me love feeding my heart fillies my emotion ever with great style of sex
Posted by: ALEX LINUS   (10/26/10)

if the both parties truely love them i dont see any reason why the cannot wait till right time before having sex. its alwaz good to wait and observe, and not just jumping into intercourse.
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Posted by: PB   (11/18/10)

I have a new gf, only met her 3 weeks ago. and have seen each other 3 times since then, we have not slepted together yet but, we have not spoken about sex but when I go to visit her i will share her double bed but is it ok if we don't have sex yet?
Posted by: PB   (11/18/10)

I dont her to think i dont have feelings for her at the sametime I dont wanna do anything until she is ready and even then I will ask nly if you are ready' that will show respect..
Posted by: Benedicta   (11/25/10)

Wat can i do to tel my boy that i want to hav sex at the time i feel
Posted by: Angel   (11/29/10)

I had sex with 3 men in early relationships n dey stopped calling me n ended de relationship. I had sex wit my current bf af a year n he adores me. I suggest it pays to wait girls
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Posted by: L. E. L   (01/09/11)

INFACT! THIS ARTICLE IS REALLY HELPFUL. I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A VERY PRETTY LADY AND SHE KEEP TELLING ME TO HAVE SEX WITH HER BUT I REFUSE BY TELLING HER WE SHOULD WAIT TILL MARRIAGE.... IF SHE INSIST, I WILL BREAK UP WITH HER.
Posted by: Prince faith   (01/20/11)

I think is not all about sex. If that guy u are going out clams he luvs u then he should wait 4 u.
Posted by: Rukky   (01/25/11)

I am so confuse becos i met this guy 2 days ago and i feel like banging him. Am i doing the right thing.
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Posted by: da sexy brat   (02/20/11)

im ws in a relatioshp wid a guy 4 a year he kept on presuring me for sex n wn i refused he left me bt i have no regretez e only wntd sex.n i wasnt ready
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Posted by: eddie   (03/02/11)

Relationships is not all about sex. Focus on maintaining the relationship itself because if its all about sex you can get it anywhere, anytime. Ladies use your head and take care, men must do their job by making their tools work on you and try another.
Posted by: Lb   (03/02/11)

Thanx 4 ur advice. I'm in a relatnship of 6mnths bt we had sex once after 4mnths bt since then i hv been scared of having sex wt him b/c i dnt trust him any longer.
Posted by: Lb   (03/02/11)

Thanx 4 ur advice. I'm in a relatnship of 6mnths bt we had sex once after 4mnths bt since then i hv been scared of having sex wt him b/c i dnt trust him any longer.
Posted by: Lb   (03/02/11)

Thanx 4 ur advice. I'm in a relatnship of 6mnths bt we had sex once after 4mnths bt since then i hv been scared of having sex wt him b/c i dnt trust him any longer.
Posted by: unique   (03/03/11)

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Posted by: uniqueze   (03/03/11)

wel i dnt tink love is all about sex.if he truly luv u den he wil wait til d right time 4 d both of u ma advice 4 d lady out dere keep ur seif it ur pride dnt rush in worldly tins
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Posted by: sunshine   (03/10/11)

i had sex wiv my boyfriend 3months after we met n a week b4 we decided 2 start dating n we ar 3years n counting. And its nt all about the sex.
Posted by: vivian   (03/13/11)

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Posted by: chioma   (03/21/11)

i hav a guy,for 2 months now,we go out,i normally go to his house,but i dont want sex.i know asked him why.he said dat he don want to rush me ,dat when we get their,we will cross the brige.but i dont understand it
Posted by: Socrate   (03/22/11)

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I'm glad I found this. But what if the girl is prude?
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whats wrong with going down on each other? No pregnancy issues, no 0300hr feedigs.
Posted by: Lydia   (04/10/11)

I gues at the end of the day its up 2 u how right do u feel thats it's what u want if u chose the ryt tym 4 u bt he stil left wel that's his loss he was neva meant to be
Posted by: Lydia   (04/10/11)

I gues at the end of the day its up 2 u how right do u feel thats it's what u want if u chose the ryt tym 4 u bt he stil left wel that's his loss he was neva meant to be
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I gues at the end of the day its up 2 u how right do u feel thats it's what u want if u chose the ryt tym 4 u bt he stil left wel that's his loss he was neva meant to be
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I gues at the end of the day its up 2 u how right do u feel thats it's what u want if u chose the ryt tym 4 u bt he stil left wel that's his loss he was neva meant to be
Posted by: anne   (04/11/11)

I had a bf before who asked to have sex with him in our first month. I refuse to because I'm not ready. The next day, he was totally different. He's not sweet anymore. I broke up with him after 3 months. We talked and he made me feel that I'm a bad person
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Posted by: peace aka galaxy   (04/23/11)

It's better to hav sex wen ur hrt tels u 2. nd not early coz if u do it due 2presur 4rm ur guy or 4u nt 2lose him then u'l definitly los hm.besids set canneva be interchangd 4luv.
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Posted by: julie   (04/27/11)

i think sex is not a important things in a relationship coz if somebody really u loves he will accept u no matter what happen and never leave u just for it.
Posted by: Dinahrez   (05/08/11)

Waitn z beta, i hv ths new guy ts 6 months nw he daznt pressure me to hav sex wit him and rarely talks about it am afraid if i sleep wit him he myt leav me so i v decided 2 wait til marriage
Posted by: Jenny   (05/18/11)

It depends on both parties!am in a relatnship for 4yrs nd i rily love dis guy nd i knw he luvs me too.my guy is wilin 2 wait til wen am readi.nd we talk about sex a lot.sex is nt luv.but sex help 2 build a more intimate relatnshp dat's is build on true lu
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I am 21yr.muslim Girl.Got marry with my B\F who is Hindu.When we makeup mind for sex my B\F asked me to suck his penis & errect it through mouthsex.My problem is his penis seize is 6.5"&girth is 6" and uncutforskin is so long which 1.5" when unerrect.
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Posted by: chris   (02/20/12)

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Posted by: Jen   (02/27/12)

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